Sunday, June 26, 2016

Project

I am working on a project called Project Living, for my religion class.  I chose to be kinder to these four people in my life for two weeks.  Don't get me wrong, we are kind but we can always do a little better with our loved ones, right?

So, last week was so busy. My daughter had her graduation party, my mom-in-law was in town, I hurt my back so bad that I wasn't able to do much bending, my husband had clients in town all week and worked really late, boys had music lessons, errands to run, and I am still going to school.  It was a crazy week, but as I sit down now, a week later reflecting on all the craziness, I realize that these four very special people really helped me out.  I am so thankful for their help and we all were able to pull it off.  The party was a huge success, my mom-in-law was such a big help, my husband was superman, and those two tall guys of mine on the left, were my muscles when I couldn't bend at all.  They were so kind to me, and I was a complainer and a stress ball, but we all somehow did it together.

I want to start this week off right and say, "thank you" my little family.  I couldn't have done any of it without you. I am grateful I have the knowledge that I know I will be with this group forever.  In The Family: A Proclamation to the World it states in the third paragraph this, "In the premortal realm, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshipped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize their divine destiny as heirs of eternal life.  The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave."  I am so happy that these four amazing people chose to receive a body and follow God's plan of happiness.  What a huge blessing they are to me.  I love them with all my heart!

This week I will do better in expressing more gratitude and love to my family.  They are all I have and I really want them to know what a huge blessing they are to me.  Really, how often do we tell our kids how special they are to us and lists the strengths you love about them?  I am going to do better and I challenge you to too.

Have a great week.

Friday, June 24, 2016

Marriage



Just as the message above, we need to have faith all throughout our lives.  Our spouse is there for us to help us along the way, to help us grow and become the child of God we need to become.  Elder Bednar shares, "The great plan of happiness enables the spirit sons and daughters of Heavenly Father to obtain physical bodies, to gain earthly experience, and to progress toward perfection.  Gender is an essential characteristic of individual permortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose and in large measure difines who we are, why we are here upon the earth, and what we are to do and become.  For divine purposes, male and femail spirits are different, distinctive, and complementary."

I am so thankful I have a good husband that I can share the eternities with.  I am blessed to have Mike in my life.  He truly is my helpmeet and such an incredible man.  He and I have been through so much and we have only grown through it all. "Marriage is Essential to His Eternal Plan", said Elder David A. Bednar.  "Our own marriage relationships and our responsibilities in the Church, I testify the Spirit of the Lord will enlighten our minds and teach us the things we need to do to improve."

Friday, May 20, 2016

The Family: Proclamation

The Family: A Proclamation to the World is a one page document that was written by Our Prophet and Apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.  In the second paragraph it reads,
"ALL HUMAN BEINGS—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose."  
It is stated with great clarity that we are created in the image of God.  President Kimball said that women are made in the image of our Heavenly Mother.  What a wonderful thought.  I had never heard of that.  Reading that brought me such comfort and I felt such love from our Heavenly Father.  I am so thankful that the Proclamation is so clear to understand and helps each of us understand where the church stands on certain aspects of the gospel.
“Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.”  I am thankful that I know, without a doubt, that I have always been a female.  It is amazing to think that every single one of us was who we are now, but in the pre-existence.   I really look forward to learning more about the Family: Proclamation to the world.  I am also grateful that our church leaders were so in tuned with the spirit to know what to say and how to word this incredible document.  

Here is the actual Family Proclamation.  I hope you read this and feel of the truthfulness and importance of the family.

THE FAMILY

A PROCLAMATION TO THE WORLD

WE, THE FIRST PRESIDENCY and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children.
ALL HUMAN BEINGS—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.
IN THE PREMORTAL REALM, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshipped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize their divine destiny as heirs of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.
THE FIRST COMMANDMENT that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God’s commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.
WE DECLARE the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God’s eternal plan.
HUSBAND AND WIFE have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. “Children are an heritage of the Lord” (Psalm 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, and to teach them to love and serve one another, observe the commandments of God, and be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.
THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.
WE WARN that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.
WE CALL UPON responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.
This proclamation was read by President Gordon B. Hinckley as part of his message at the General Relief Society Meeting held September 23, 1995, in Salt Lake City, Utah.

Tuesday, May 3, 2016

My Family

This is my family.  My husband and I have been married for 25 years now and have loved all the adventures we have been through!  We have 2 boys that are 12 and 14 and a daughter that is 18 and going off to college this summer.  Our life is a busy busy one but we all meet at the same place each night, our home.

I have created this blog because of a class I am taking right now called "Eternal Families".  The project is called the Capstone Project.  I chose to write a blog for 12 weeks in hopes of sharing my thoughts, fears, cocerns, and joys that comes with being in a family.  I hope you enjoy it and hope those that follow me, we can learn from one another.